Every pet owner wants to build trust and create a stronger bond with their dog.
But building that trust isn’t always about commands and treats – it’s about understanding your dog and respecting your dog’s comfort levels.
That’s where consent-based dog training comes in. This method focuses on creating a cooperative relationship with your pet, rooted in mutual respect and emotional well-being.
Let’s break down how consent in dog training works and why it might be the key to a stronger bond with your furry best friend.
What is consent in dog training?
Consent training is all about inviting your dog to participate in their own learning journey. Consent-based training is about giving them the freedom to make choices in their lives.
Traditional dog training vs. Consent-based dog training
Traditional dog training methods often use force or correction. The main difference between traditional dog training and consent-based training lies in the approach to obedience and the dog’s autonomy.
Traditional Training
- Focuses on commands and corrections.
- Uses techniques like physical guidance (e.g., pushing a dog into a sitting position).
- Relies on dominance or force to achieve results.
- Success is often measured by compliance, regardless of the dog’s emotional state.
Consent-Based Training
- Emphasises the dog’s comfort and willingness to participate.
- Encourages dogs to make choices, using positive reinforcement (e.g., rewarding voluntary actions).
- Focuses on reading body language and respecting boundaries.
- Builds trust and cooperation by creating a stress-free learning environment.
In short, traditional methods prioritise results, while consent-based training nurtures trust and respects the dog’s autonomy, leading to a more positive, long-term relationship.
It’s about working with your dog, not on them.
What does consent look like in dogs?
Dogs speak to us all the time – through their tails, ears, and even their gaze.
Learning to read your pet’s behaviour helps you understand when they’re comfortable and when they’d rather not engage.
Positive Dog Behaviour
- A relaxed body posture
- A gentle, wagging tail
- Soft eye contact and forward ears
- Approaching you willingly
These are green lights that say, “I’m ready to engage!”
Negative Dog Behaviour
- Turning away or avoiding eye contact
- Tucked tail or lowered body
- Flattened ears
- Growling, barking, or retreating
These are your dog’s way of saying, “I need space.” Respecting these signals not only prevents stress but also strengthens your bond over time.
The Do’s and Don’ts of consent-based dog training
| Do | Don’t |
| Reward your dog with treats or back rubs when they agree with you. | Punish your dog for disagreeing – discomfort may indicate an underlying issue. |
| Use a comfortable, dog-friendly leash during training so your dog can feel relaxed. | Use aversive equipment (like shock collars) that can create fear and anxiety. |
| Trust your dog’s nose when they interact before engaging in play with other dogs. | Force interactions with other dogs, as incompatibility can lead to unsafe situations. |
| Foster cooperation by building mutual respect and positive reinforcement. | Overlook your dog’s needs – remember they are sentient beings who value healthy relationships. |
Why is this important?
Consent training doesn’t just create well-behaved dogs – it fosters confident dogs.
By respecting your dog’s boundaries, you help them feel more secure in their environment, which can reduce dog anxiety and behaviours. This leads to:
- Easier vet visits and grooming sessions.
- Effective dog introductions during pet socialisations.
- Safe and positive interactions with people.
- A more relaxed and trusting relationship with you.
Plus, a dog who trusts you is far more likely to follow your lead willingly. This allows you to focus on your dog’s health and overall wellbeing.
How to build a strong bond with your dog
Building trust takes time, but it’s one of the most rewarding parts of pet parenthood.
Here are some more insights about consent-based training from certified Australian Pet Behaviourist, Laura Vissaritis.
Here are the key takeaways:
- Reward the good moments: Treats, praise, and belly rubs go a long way when your dog willingly engages.
- Offer choices: Let your dog choose the walking route or pick between two toys. Small choices build confidence.
- Play together: Games like fetch reinforce teamwork and fun.
- Ease into grooming and health checks: Introduce brushing, nail trims, and vet visits gradually. Use treats and praise to create positive associations.
At Knose, we know how much your dog’s happiness and well-being matter to you. Regular health check-ins and vet visits are a part of building that trust.
With our affordable award-winning dog and puppy insurance, you can focus on strengthening your bond without worrying about unexpected vet bills.
Consent training isn’t about creating the “perfect” dog – it’s about building a loving, respectful relationship with them. Happy training!
